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How to Stop Stress Eating Right Now


 Posted by Susan Bowerman, M.S., RD, CSSD, CSOWM, FAND – Senior Director, Worldwide Nutrition Education and Training  0 Comment

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Check your emotions before eating.

Stress eating doesn’t usually take away stress and often adds pounds.

Emotional eating happens to most of us, especially when we’re stressed or going through something tense.

Maybe you’ve cheered yourself up with a bowl of ice cream after an unusually tough day or snuck in some extra chocolate while you were venting to friend. But when emotional eating is the first and most frequent response to negative thoughts and feelings – it’s time to get a grip.

What is stress eating?
Stress eating – or emotional eating – is pretty much what it sounds like. It’s when you eat in order to escape whatever bad feelings you’re experiencing. You hope the food will make you feel better. Sometimes it’s a conscious decision:

“My boss really ticked me off today… I’m going to get a pizza delivered.”

But more often it’s just a mindless response to a vague, negative emotion that you can’t quite put your finger on. You may not know what’s bothering you, but you’re pretty sure that food is the one thing that will cure whatever ails you.

Is it emotional or physical hunger?
There are few telltale signs that can help you distinguish emotional hunger or stress eating from true, physical hunger.

  • Emotional stress eating usually comes on suddenly. You start feeling stressed or tense and wham! You’re craving takeout nachos. On the other hand, physical hunger tends to come on gradually. You’re starting to feel hungry, but you can wait to eat – which gives you some time to choose wisely and satisfy that hunger with something that’s good for you.
  • Stress eating usually causes a craving for a food that’s sugary, fatty, high calorie and specific. The craving isn’t just for chocolate, but a slice of triple layer fudge cake from Fred’s Diner on 6th In contrast, when you’re physically hungry, food – in general – sounds good to you. You’re willing to consider several options that will satisfy your physical hunger, which means you’re more likely to make a better choice.
  • Once your physical hunger is satisfied and your stomach is comfortably full, it’s a signal that you’ve had enough, and you tend to stop eating. But when emotions are the driver, it’s easy to ignore what your stomach is telling you and you wind up eating way too much in order to make yourself feel better.
  • Stress eating might lift your mood momentarily, but shame and guilt often move in just as quickly. When you finish a meal that’s satisfied your physical hunger, you don’t usually feel guilty afterwards.

 Tips for Dealing with Stress Eating Behaviors

  • Keep a food journal. A food journal can help you see what triggers your stress eating. Whenever you feel the need to eat, make a note of how hungry you are on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 = I’m faint with hunger; 10 = I’m so stuffed I have to loosen my clothing). Then, write down how you’re feeling at the moment. What triggered your need to eat? Are you actually hungry – or are you feeling sad or anxious?
  • Own up to your feelings. You know that emotions are the trigger for your stress eating, so why not acknowledge them? It’s okay to be mad, scared, lonely or bored sometimes. The feelings may be unpleasant, but they’re not dangerous – and you don’t always need to ‘fix’ them. Let your emotions come and go without judging them. They are what they are.
  • Work on your coping skills. Every time you eat in response to stress, it’s just a reminder that you can’t cope with your emotions. When stress strikes, try asking yourself, “What’s the worst thing that will happen if I don’t eat?” Yes, your stress level might rise a bit, but the feeling will pass. If you let yourself simply experience the stress, you may find out that it’s probably not as bad as you thought it would be. Practice tolerating your emotions or finding other ways to deal with your stress.
  • Find alternatives to eating. Take a few moments to reflect on your feelings and think of ways you can solve your problem. Make a list of things you can do instead of eating. Take a walk to clear your head, listen to music, meditate, read or call a friend and talk things over.
  • Unlearn your bad habits. Emotional eaters continually reinforce the idea that the best way to treat negative emotions is with food. And like other bad habits, stress eating happens before you’ve had a chance to think about it. For instance, one bad day may equal five hours of television and one quart of ice cream. So, you need to “un-learn” your bad habits and practice doing something other than eating when a bad day strikes.
  • Wait it out. Stress eaters are often afraid that if they don’t satisfy the urge to eat, the craving will just get worse and worse and worse. But, when they delay, they’re often surprised that the urge simply passes. Rather than immediately giving in to your urges, promise yourself you’ll wait a few minutes. Chances are you’ll get distracted or busy and the craving will pass.

Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to work on your stress eating. If you find that these tactics aren’t working for you, ask your health care provider if counseling or group support might be helpful for you.

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Susan Bowerman, M.S., RD, CSSD, CSOWM, FAND – Senior Director, Worldwide Nutrition Education and Training
Susan is the Senior Director of Worldwide Nutrition Education and Training at Herbalife, where she is responsible for the development of nutrition education and training materials, and is one of the primary authors of the Herbalife-sponsored blog, www.discovergoodnutrition.com. She is a Registered Dietitian and holds two Board Certifications from the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics as a Certified Specialist in Sports Dietetics, and a Certified Specialist in Obesity and Weight Management. Susan is also a Fellow of the Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics. Susan graduated with distinction in biology from the University of Colorado, and received her master’s degree in Food Science and Nutrition from Colorado State University. She then completed her dietetic internship at the University of Kansas. Susan has taught extensively and developed educational programs targeted to individuals, groups and industry in her areas of expertise, including health promotion, weight management and sports nutrition. Prior to her role at Herbalife, she was the assistant director of the UCLA Center for Human Nutrition, and has held appointments as adjunct professor in nutrition at Pepperdine University and as lecturer in nutrition in the Department of Food Science and Nutrition at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo. Susan was a consultant to the (then) Los Angeles Raiders for six seasons, and was a contributing columnist for the Los Angeles Times Health Section for two years. She is a co-author of 23 research papers, 14 book chapters, and was a co-author of two books for the public: “What Color is Your Diet?” and “The L.A. Shape Diet” by Dr. David Heber, published by Harper Collins in 2001 and 2004, respectively.


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